Black Men Are Selfish Series

CH.6

Why Do You Still Love Us?... Attraction!

“What makes electricity? ... A positive and negative energy”

                

             If someone isn’t attracted to you with his or her first impression, there’s nothing you can do about it. If someone is attracted to you with their first impression, there is nothing they can do about it. Whatever it would take for you to reverse these actions is simply not worth the time end effort. .......

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If These Walls Could Talk

          

         
              The tea kettle was boiling with an elixir so potent it made the paint chip. Floors creaked from constantly measuring the weight of matter, and the pressure of high expectations sometimes made the ceiling cry. "We're not movin" she said as the appraiser downplayed the value of the house that had walls strong enough to handle the tyrant outrages of four adolescent boys fighting to become men and prayers cried loud and Sunday hymns and door slammed so tight evil could never enter in. The shadows in the yard changed as branches fell from fit's of rage, but God said that it would never rain again for 40 nights and 40 days. This house was no Ark, but sparked by an embark, few thought would ever stand the test of time. "Be patient" became the motto as four brothers packed the carload, there was always something about being in the front seat. With water in one hand, and a glance at some sand, she knew they had the tools to form their own concrete. "Don't be fooled, play the game, their resources are the same", filled their minds when the clouds blocked their shine. For she knew of the tricks, manipulations, conflicts the same brew that made the paint chip. It's not the gloss in the color, or the mood that you get, or a picture hanging high in a frame. If these walls could talk, they'd refused to be covered, cause a great story could be told through pain.

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          No one can see the scars left behind. Her I.D. only shows where she is headed. She hopes they see it too, so they can quit asking about her job or purpose. She’s running out of excuses trying to explain each step she takes. She knows she’s on the right path, they may laugh, but she’s just executing a plan that was given before birth. Her I.D. symbolizes her purpose and she somehow gets satisfaction by just knowing she has a job to do. The superintendent, often reminds her, just like her superiors once did, that she can only become a pawn in someone elses chess game and if she’s lucky the king will put a ring turning the queen into more than “That Thing”. These morals were always taught by those she looks up to and have been stained in her brain since birth and shadow her around and become even more evident when the sun is at it’s brightest. Its gotten to the point where she sees it being spoken through other people and even situations. Its as if everyone’s in on the joke. She stares at her I.D. which says that she‘s fully capable of completing the job by herself. No man required. Dreams start contradicting each other. Something about the super doesn’t make sense. Failed attempts at the job make her wonder if she should change the description on the I.D. Chaos ensues, until she remembers what got her through the last time this happened. She knows that it’s drive that brings her pleasure and a voice deep within says “Ebony go”. The chains that locked her into that dark place of confusion break loose. “Ebony go”. She needs inspiration to keep going faster than she can say her name, so she just chants “E-go”. She now has a defense against anything that would even attempt to embarrass her. She found the key to success. Her “ego” is no longer just a chant, but can now be seen in her clothes and material possessions. Her ‘ego” is now a force field, and anyone that doesn’t know her agenda now, she would be glad to let them know. Friends become intimidated, everyone else irritated, no one understands. “Better them than me”. She says “Understand what I’m fightin’ against and you’ll understand my ‘ego’”.......PART 2 COMING SOON.

　

*Based on Id, Super Ego, and Ego.

Inspirational Present

From "The Clay-Maker" Clay Matthews #52 GB Packers
"Will do"

BMRS

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Love

          

             "When love first happens, the individuals are giving each other energy unconsciously and both people feel buoyant and elated. That's the incredible high we call being ‘in love.’ Unfortunately, once they expect this feeling to come from another person, they cut themselves off from the energy in the universe and begin to rely even more on the energy from each other--only now there doesn’t seem to be enough and so they stop giving each other energy and fall back into their dramas in an attempt to control each other and force the other's energy their way.                                        — James Redfield (The Celestine Prophecy)

The Man Who Didn't Believe In Love

                  I WANT TO TELL YOU A VERY OLD STORY ABOUT the man who didn’t believe in love. This was an ordinary man just like you and me, but what made this man special was his way of thinking: He thought love doesn’t exist. Of course, he had a lot of experience trying to find love, and he had observed the people around him. Much of his life had been spent searching for love, only to find that love didn’t exist.
            Wherever this man went, he used to tell people that love is nothing but an invention of the poets, an invention of religions just to manipulate the weak mind of humans, to have control over humans, to make them believe. He said that love is not real, and that’s why no human could ever find love even though he might look for it......Click here for more.

The Bull doesn’t bother the cowboy, the cowboy bothers the Bull.



Daily Motivations

“Problems cannot be solved by the same level of thinking that created them.”- Albert Einstein

　

                 The world isn’t getting worse. God isn’t punishing his creation. it’s the thoughts you thought you had tapping you on your shoulder, its just a different view of the same situation. Energy is never created or destroyed, It’s just the tough YOU circling back around giving the feeling of intimidation, now all of a sudden you don’t want to be tough no more. It’s the happy YOU represented by someone else excited about the promotion, but you cant promote it to the ones devoted to your cause, and the pause created is the perfect habitat for envy. Ill prepared for the boomerang you threw to come back. Defenseless against your own creation. iRobot. The game is played within the same 5 inches between the ears, no matter how inflated the head gets. The vacant esteem we were born with is now vacant with the introduction of highs’ and low. The Creator created creation in order to continue creating, yet have the power to restrain without blame. Life isn’t hard. Life is.

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      I had to remove the labels at the bottom of each writing asking whether you agreed, or was it good etc.  I'am not sure as to why I put it there in the first place, because I never really liked pat on the backs anyways.  The purpose of the blog is to create thought, whether you convey it to me or not, but just to open a cavity in your brain that allows you to think outside of your normal thought pattern.  Keep reading, thanks for visiting.

Let's Eat

         

               If life was a bowl of fish or roasted almonds, I wouldn't of made it to my first birhtday.  There isn't enough epidural pens in the world to stimulate the adrenaline needed to fight the antigens that would eventually take over.  Lucky for me, the bowl of life can be altered into a smorgasbord, as some say "Life is what you make it".  In order to make it year after year, I found it necessary to restrict those things from the diet and opt for foods that aided the immune system and didn't cause the allergic reaction fish and nuts would.  As life advances for us all, it's not a matter of what we eat.  Even if we're not in the best shape, we know what to eat in order to bring us back to the ideal.  What happens when we get so far along and lose the will to eat.

              

             Hunger gives power to vision.  Don't believe me ask a person that fasts.  At times you must go without and restrict yourself in order to understand what you're feeding and whether you should be feeding it.  An appetite for destruction could lead to much more than "The Itis". An increased appetite is a side effect, just like a pregnant woman eats for two, you're likely in the embryonic stages of birthing a new stage in life.   In order to gain, you must change your eating habits.  In order to gain you must have the attitude that your sight means more to you than the relationships with your friends.  You must risk having a vision and losing friends, than to be blind with them.  You got to be able to risk the intimidation factor of having people around you that know more or better that causes you to read more and understand.  If you want to lose, be the smartest person you know and surround yourself with those with lowered expectations.  Be the person everyone looks to for answers and have them accept that your point of views are the end all be all. 

                        3 Basic Types of People You’ll Interact With In Order To Inherit Destiny.

1. Confidants- You will have very few of these. They are into you for who you are. Whether your up or down, right or wrong, you can open up to these people without fearing a judgment.. They are with you unconditionally. They are intimately intertwined in your life. If you have 2 or 3 of these people in your lifetime you are blessed. You’ll never inherit your kingdom unless you find your confidant. You cant be David without Jonathan. Need to be around people that can feed you, so you can feed someone else. They are there to make sure you reach your destiny.

2. Constituents- They’re not into you, they are for what you are for. As long as you are for what they are for they will walk with you, work with you and labor. They are not with you, but what you have and what you are for and will leave you for somebody else that can advance they’re agenda. Typically when you fall enamored with these people, they will leave you for someone else that can push they’re agenda. If you’re not careful you will mistake your constituents for your confidants.


3. Commrades- They aren’t for you, or for what you are for, but are against what you are against. They team up with you to fight a greater enemy. They are only with you until the job is done, and chances are whenever that teamwork is no longer there, they will use that same negative attention towards you. They are like scaffolding. They come into your life to fulfill a purpose, once the purpose is done, the scaffolding is removed, yet the structure still stands.

*Be careful who you tell your dream too. Don’t be surprised when the constituents and comrades desert you once you reveal you’re dream. Constituents will try and steal your dream and try to complete it by themselves, comrades wont support it because they were never for what you were for.

 *From TD Jakes sermon